I’ve encountered my fair share of advice—some of it genuinely helpful, and some incredibly hurtful. One thing I’ve realized, though, is that unsolicited advice almost always earns an internal eye roll from me. Why? Because it’s often delivered in a way that feels self-serving or like an attempt to redirect the conversation back to the giver—even when it doesn’t remotely apply to what I’ve been venting abou

That said, this mini-series on my blog is my way of rebranding unsolicited advice. It’s a space to explore some of the worst advice I’ve received, uncover the lessons I may have missed (yes, even bitterness has its blind spots), and offer my own advice—but with an emphasis on structure, intention, and genuine care. I’ll share thoughts on topics like singleness, dating, and breakups… celebrating "small" milestones… the importance of learning to do things alone… and so much more.